Notes on sex, dating, and masculinity from an exhausted post-monogamous anti-puritan genderfucking slutbag.
The current “male loneliness”/pushback discourse in my feed is like hearing completely accurate bell hooks quotes about patriarchy except they are read by snarky 90s radio morning show jocks with fart noises and air horns
Is it a violation of trust to *ask* if you can bang an ex?
Feminist men aren’t out here punching ourselves in the dick every five seconds. You can be a happy, horny, self-accepting, sexually and intimately satisfied feminist man without shame.
It’s pride month and that brings up the topic of whether ENM folks belong at Pride events. That is, at Pride events specifically because of their non-monogamy. Stating my bias and privilege up-front: I’m white,